New York, State of Mine
As I go through this process of settling into my new state I’m surprised to feel grief. Part of this process required I surrender my...
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For What You Dream Of
Last week I dreamed I got pulled over by the police. I knew I would get pulled over. I performed an illegal U-turn. My assumption...
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Lost-Found-Lost
I found and lost my voice this week. I found it while gassing up my car at the slowest pump ever. When I saw another car pull up at the...
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Detangling
I spent the better part of the morning last week detangling my hair and twisting it into Bantu knots, my first attempt, and a very...
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My Impostor! Syndrome
Imposter! Recently a confluence of three different things, which on their own were bad enough, happened within a week of each other that...
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It's All Good Hair
Two years ago, which feels more like a million years ago because it was at least three different versions of me ago, at the beginning of...